Include riding gear (add ~3-5kg / 7-11lbs to body weight).
Pressure varies significantly between brands and models.
Number installed in fork and/or shock. More spacers = more end-stroke progression.
Most modern MTB wheels are 28-32mm internal. Check your wheel manufacturer specs.
Heavier casings (e.g. Maxxis EXO+, Schwalbe Super Gravity) allow lower pressures.